His Birthday List

by Laurie Ness

You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.  Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.  Matthew 5:14-16

Just about every popular Christmas CD, from Bing Crosby to Jars of Clay, includes the artist's interpretation of one of my very favorite yuletide songs, "The Little Drummer Boy."  The sweet lyrics bring a lump to my throat every time I stop to focus on what their message is conveying.

My favorite part goes something like this:

"Baby Jesus . . . I am a poor boy, too . . .
I have no gift to bring . . . That's fit to give the King . . .
Shall I play for you . . . On my drum?

Mary nodded . . . The ox and lamb kept time . . .
I played my drum for Him . . . I played my best for Him . . .
Then He smiled at me . . ."

The whole point of this imaginative story set to music is that we all have something to give.  Someone might not have two dimes to rub together, but still has a big gift to give Jesus.  In fact, Jesus isn't really impressed by money given out of abundance anyway.  See what He says in Luke 21:1-4.

As Jesus looked up, he saw the rich putting their gifts into the temple treasury. He also saw a poor widow put in two very small copper coins. “Truly I tell you,” he said, “this poor widow has put in more than all the others. All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on.”

She gave all she had, ladies!

It was a sacrifice!

What do we know of sacrifice?  Do we really put it all on the line for our Savior, who gave everything for us?  Whether or not we have money to give, there is always something more, something deeply felt we can offer, isn't there?


Let's ask ourselves this:  What can I give Jesus?

If Jesus had a birthday list, might it look something like this?

1. Wrap up all your self-centered attitudes, lay them at My feet, and I will take them away.
2. Ask me to replace those with patience toward the annoyances in life.
3. Bless your family, friends and enemies, even when you feel they don't deserve the best of you.
4. Reach out to that bitter woman. I know she's no fun to be around, but she needs My love. I want you to love her with My love.
5. Surrender that Christmas gift you want so badly this year, and use the money to bless a family in need. I acknowledge your wants, but they still aren't as important as their needs.
6. That relationship that isn't pleasing to Me--please do what you know you need to do.
7. All that credit you're taking for the fabulous things you do--Who gave you the ability to do those things?  Where does the glory and honor belong?
8. Let go of that grudge you're holding and bestow mercy and forgiveness.
9. Use your (My) time and resources wisely.
10. Please celebrate ME on the day set aside to recognize My birth.  And continue that celebration the remainder of the year as well.

I wouldn't be surprised if, at the top of His list, He'd want us to do what the fictitious little drummer boy, and those very real shepherds, did:  show up!  They took the time to be in the very presence of the Son of God!  They worshiped Him in their own unique ways, as God had gifted them.  Perhaps they were even a bit out of their comfort zones.  In any case, they came to Him, recognized Him, glorified Him and told others about their encounter with God.

May we not forget to set aside time in this busy season to sit at His feet and wish Him a happy birthday!

Attitude of Gratitude

by Laurie Ness

"I will give thanks to you, LORD, with all my heart;
   I will tell of all your wonderful deeds.
I will be glad and rejoice in you;
   I will sing the praises of your name, O Most High."  Psalm 9:1,2

What a happy and joyful heart those words reflect.  Of course, happy and joyful are not always equal.  Happiness is an emotion.  Joy is an attitude.  Joy can be chosen in the worst of unhappy times. 

Whether we find ourselves in happy or unhappy circumstances this Thanksgiving season, let us choose joy by focusing on all we have for which to be grateful.  In fact, let's go beyond that and choose a grateful heart every day of the year!

What about those mundane or irritating circumstances we face every day?  Can we be thankful for those?  Absolutely!  Let's "strike out" those grumpy thoughts and replace them with gratitude.  For example:

"Where does all this laundry come from?!"   "I'm so glad my family has clothes to wear."

"Ugh!  All these dishes!"   "Thank You, Lord, for each dear person who ate from these dishes!"

"So help me, if I hear that child whine one more time. . .!"    "I'm so thankful God gave you to me (but you're still not getting what you want with that tone of voice)."

"I ALWAYS pick the longest line at the grocery store!"  "Thankfully, I have plentiful choices of food and maybe an opportunity to reach out to someone else waiting in this line."

"I'll never have the longing of my heart fulfilled."    "Thanks, Lord, for allowing things to happen in Your timing, since You know better than I do!"

"Why does my husband have to annoy me today?"  "Help me, Lord, to bless my husband today."

"I HATE working out!"   "Isn't it great that my body is strong enough to move like this?"

You get the idea!  My grandma always told me, "There's something good in every situation.  Sometimes you have to look extra hard to find it, but it's there!"  My grandma was a very pleasant, content woman.  Just think of the stress and emotional baggage we can eliminate from our lives if we truly choose to look at the bright side of things.  That doesn't mean we'll never feel sadness, anger, hurt or other negative emotions.  If we decide to focus on gratitude for the good, though, the negative feelings are free to process their way through and out of us rather than hanging on, transforming into rancid bitterness and wreaking havoc on our physical bodies as well.

God is glorified when we thank Him from a sincere heart.  But, in His goodness, He has allowed gratitude to be beneficial to us as well.  Thinking gratefully, though, doesn't always come naturally.  We need God's help.  Frequent prayer and reading of Scripture verses on gratitude will help immensely!  But we also have to be willing to submit to God's work in our hearts--willing to let go of our irritations or grudges.  That's much easier said than done.  We can choose to do it anyway!

Let's practice gratitude, sisters! :)

Further Reading:

Psalm 92:1-2
1Thessalonians 5:15-18
Colossians 3:17

Choosing Gratitude:  Your Journey to Joy, by Nancy Leigh DeMoss

Why Pray?

by Laurie Ness

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  Philippians 4:6

Several weeks ago, I decided to designate Wednesdays as "Prayer Request Day" for my Facebook friends.  Of course, my friends and family are welcome to bring their concerns to me anytime, but I just felt the leading of the Lord to set aside this particular day of the week.  I've received requests of all kinds, mostly via private messages, and it's plain to see that there are all levels of concerns people have, from the most basic of needs to deeply hurting hearts.  The sweetest thing is that God cares about all of it! 

Even for devoted Christ-followers, prayer can be easy to take for granted for some, a mundane "chore" for others, or an untried mystery for still more.  On the other hand, there are many faithful prayer warriors who count it a blessing to spend time every day devoted to prayer.

It's not so much about saying "the right words" or how many minutes we spend on our knees, nor even whether or not we are on our knees at all.  While we do need to spend focused time in prayer, and praying on our knees is one way of showing reverence and surrender, God is more interested in what's on the inside of us when we talk to Him--our attitude, our willingness and desire to set aside our busyness for awhile to commune with Him (Mat. 6:5-13).  He made us to have fellowship with Him!  We can spend hours on our knees and never have a surrendered heart.  God wants our hearts, ladies!

So what exactly are we doing when we pray, anyway?

We are acknowledging that God is who He says He is and will do what He says He will do.   How do we know who God is and what His promises are?  By reading and studying His very words in the only living book, the Bible.  Yes, His Word is living and powerful (Hebrews 4:12)!  We bring our concerns to God alone because He is ultimately the only One who can do anything about them.  But let's be careful not to spend our entire time with Him asking for things.  Why not begin by praising Him for who He is and for keeping His promises?  The Psalms are full of beautiful words to honor our God.  We can pray those words straight to His heart!

We are admitting our utter dependence on Him.  Let's face it:  Contrary to what some people will try to get us to believe, we know that we wouldn't even exist if it wasn't for God.  We would have nothing without Him.  Whether or not we approve of the circumstances He has allowed for our lives, the very air we breathe, every morsel of food we eat, every penny we spend or save is provided by His hand.  He knows what you need, dear ones!  He doesn't need to be told, yet He asks of us to lay our burdens at His feet.  We need to remember with reverence the Creator of the Universe and His position far above anyone or anything else.

We are trusting Him to do what He knows to be best for us.  Because of our faith in Jesus Christ, we can cry out to this same God we revere, calling Him "Abba Father" (Romans 8:15).  This is like calling God, "Daddy."  If you've been around children, you know that they ask for things expectantly, enthusiastically, no matter how many times they've heard the word "No" in the past.  Like a wise, loving parent, God listens with patience and then gives the appropriate answer (Luke 11:11-12).  Sometimes it's a "No."  Other times it will be a "Yes" or a "Wait awhile."  Always, it's the best answer for us, even when we don't see it that way, because God sees the whole picture and knows what we need better than we do.

We are blessing the lives of those for whom we pray.  God listens!  He hears!  Sometimes we don't even know what to say on behalf of someone else but the Holy Spirit intercedes for us (Rom. 8:26, 27).  Mighty things can happen when we lift each other up to the Almighty God.  Despite the pessimism of doubters, miracles still happen!  The Bible indicates that God is moved by our prayers.  Not that He needs them, but He does desire them.

Prayer is such a wonderful, powerful privilege when you think about what it really is.  The Creator of the entire universe, the One who spoke it into existence and holds it together, actually cares to fellowship with us!  He is pleased to have us come to Him no matter where or when.  Let's be sure to spend time with Him each day, my sisters, and let us not neglect to thank Him for His answers to our prayers!

Further Reading:

Matthew 6:25-34
Luke 11:5-18